The science on reading is strong. We know how all children learn to read as well as how to help those who struggle. Why aren’t all school reading programs using the research? Read and listen to this report from American Public Media on what works for reading instruction and the state of reading education.
Does your child struggle with listening comprehension? Many adults enjoy listening to podcasts, but they can be great for children, too. For example, the science podcast Tumble has educational and entertaining content for the whole family to enjoy. Read this article from MindShift for more information about the benefits of podcasts for children.
Ever wonder how to help your child become kinder and more empathetic? The Washington Post has compiled a list of 24 books that will foster kindness in your child. There are books for ages preschool through high school, so no matter how old your child is, this list is a great place to start!
Article referenced: Amy Joyce. “From preschool through high school: 24 great books that show empathy, kindness.” The Washington Post. Last modified August 10, 2016. https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/parenting/wp/2016/08/10/from-preschool-through-high-school-24-great-books-that-show-empathy-kindness/
For some parents, teacher conferences can be a stressful time. No one likes to hear that their child is having challenges at school. However, teacher conferences can also be a great time to collaborate as a team and develop strategies to support your child. Here are some helpful tips for meeting with your child’s teacher:
-Start on a positive note. This helps everyone to start out on the same side and feel calmer about the problem-solving process. You could tell the teacher something your student likes about the class or let the teacher know you appreciate all the hard work they do. You could even ask the teacher for some positive traits they see in your child.
-Ask for specific examples of your child’s struggles. This could range from which types of assignments are hardest to which time of day your child has most trouble participating. For example, if the teacher says there are some behavior challenges, ask if there is anything that happens right before or during the behavior. Is it during a difficult subject, right after recess, during group work, or during a time that is more noisy? Finding patterns can help everyone address the behavior.
-Ask the teacher for classroom strategies that are working so far. The teacher can help you understand the type of support your child currently needs and you may find some of those strategies also work at home.
-Be prepared to describe specific examples of difficulties completing homework or studying. Let the teacher know the approaches you find most helpful. For example, if you need to say directions in a different way or give your child an outline for a paper, this is great information for teachers. The teacher may have more ideas for home support.
-Let the teacher know of any outside help you are getting. For example, if your child sees an educational specialist or speech-language pathologist, bring reports and/or goals to help the teacher learn about your child.
-Ask your outside provider to give you a list of appropriate classroom strategies and accommodations, based on your child’s learning challenges. For example, having a child sit close to the teacher for easy check-ins can be very useful. As another example, your child could benefit from written directions to help him/her remember the steps, or oral presentation of directions/questions to support reading difficulties.
-Ask for the preferred way to check in with the teacher– is a quick weekly email check-in or phone call helpful to keep everyone up to date on missing assignments or new issues? It is better to problem-solve early on than to wait until the end of the semester to discover areas of need.
-If you feel that your child needs more than the typical classroom teacher can provide, ask what services are available at the school for additional support.
Phonological awareness skills are closely tied to later reading skills. But what is phonological awareness? As The Primary Pals state in their article Four Levels of Phonological Awareness, “it is the understanding that sentences are made of words, words are made of syllables, and syllables are made of phonemes.” Being able to hear and manipulate each sound in a word is essential to reading and spelling. Read the full article for a basic explanation of phonological awareness skills and some easy home activities!
Article referenced: “Four Levels of Phonological Awareness.”The Primary Pals. Last modified July 30, 2016. http://www.theprimarypals.com/2016/07/four-levels-of-phonological-awareness.html
It can be hard for parents and teachers to know the best way to praise a child. Should we just say, “Good job,” or should we be more specific? Will it spoil a child if we praise them too much? This article has some great ideas for boosting confidence and independence, such as replacing “general praise” with “process praise.” So instead of saying simply, “Good job!” we could say, “I like the way you picked up your toys when I asked.” See the whole article on MindShift for more tips on praising your preschooler.
Deborah Farmer Kris. “Preschoolers and Praise: What Kinds of Messages Help Kids Grow?” MindShift. Last modified June 10, 2015. https://ww2.kqed.org/mindshift/2015/06/10/preschoolers-and-praise-messages-that-can-help-kids-grow/
Early intervention speech and language therapy focuses on children with delays from ages birth to five. In addition to seeking treatment from a Speech-Language Pathologist, you can help your child by learning about typical development and using strategies during your daily routines. The early years are a time of rapid development and are crucial to building foundational speech, language, and social skills. Here is a basic overview of some early communication skills your child needs before they can use words, as well as some home strategies.
What Skills Must Develop Before My Child Can Talk?
Communication is so much more than just words! Play, social thinking, and a variety of movements, gestures, and facial expressions are all part of effective communication, too. “Pre-verbal” skills are the building blocks of communication and typically begin developing the moment a child is born—as they listen, watch, play, take turns, and try out new sounds. Many pre-verbal skills are important before a child can name objects, have a conversation, or follow directions.
For example, a child must learn to:
get someone’s attention, request, protest, and show emotions. They do this by crying and making a variety of sounds, facial expressions and movements. They also use gestures such as reaching, pointing and pushing objects away with their hands.
understand gestures and visual signals, such as knowing that when mom puts her arms out it means, “up,” and when dad gets a bottle out it means, “time to eat.”
make simple sounds and movements with their tongue, lips, and jaw such as when they open and close their mouth, kiss, smile, and blow bubbles. These are precursors to the complex movements of speech.
produce single vowel and consonant sounds such as, “oooh,” and “puh.”
babble by putting sounds together into syllables such as, “mamama.”
take turns in a simple game such as peek-a-boo or hiding a toy and finding it. This is practice for conversational turn-taking and involves early social skills.
look at the person who is talking and notice what that person is paying attention to. For instance, a baby may see you look across the room and follow your gaze. This skill relates to social engagement and understanding another person’s thoughts.
point to something they want you to notice, such as a picture in a book or a toy they want. This is part of learning to influence what someone else is thinking and doing.
understand single words, such as ball, open, mama, up, uh-oh, and dog.
How Can I Help My Child Develop These Skills?
If your child is struggling with communication, they may not have some important pre-verbal skills. It is crucial to be sure they learn any missing skills so that they can become effective communicators. There is no need for special toys or elaborate activities. Simple interactions through play, book reading, and daily routines are the best way for young children to learn. Just hearing you talk is amazing for speech and language development. A child will learn more during activities which interest and motivate them, such as during their favorite games and moments when they want you to give them something. Your SLP will individualize your home activities as well as demonstrate them for you.
Examples of home strategies for children learning pre-verbal skills:
Try to get on your child’s level so they can see your face as you talk, play, sing, or read. This helps them to see and imitate your lip and tongue movements.
Slow down and exaggerate your voice and intonations a little to highlight each speech sound and get the child’s attention. This helps your child to process speech sounds more efficiently.
When your child is looking at your face, make single sounds and syllables in an exaggerated way to help your child learn to imitate you.
Make silly faces and encourage your child to imitate you. This encourages new movements as well as turn taking and social reciprocity.
As you play with blocks or other toys, talk about what you and your child are doing and use action words. For example, as you stack blocks, say, “Up, up, up…crash! They fell down! Again?”… Or while you race cars, “Vrooom, vroom! Car goes fast! Uh-oh, crash!”
When your child makes sounds or babbles, reward them by smiling and talking or babbling back to them in an excited way. You can even imitate their babble and “interpret” it. If they say, “babababa” you can say, “ba? You want the ball? Ball! Roll the ball!” Then roll the ball to them. This teaches them that they have communicated (even if you aren’t sure what they meant) and is very powerful!
When your child looks at or points at something, “follow their lead” by showing them you are interested in it, too. You can show interest by looking at the object, getting it out to play with, and then talking as you play.
Speak in short, simple words and phrases to support their ability to understand and imitate you.
Repeat sounds, key words, and phrases many times. Learning requires many repetitions. If you feel like a broken record, you are doing it right!
Praise your child when they successfully understand a word or phrase, imitate you, or otherwise participate in your activity. A smile and an excited voice are often highly motivating to young children.
Sing high-interest songs with accompanying movements, such as The Wheels on the Bus, Itsy Bitsy Spider, and Ring Around the Rosie. These songs build skills in speech, vocabulary, grammar, and social interactions. If needed, use hand-over-hand to help your child make the movements.
Read short picture books together. Label pictures, make animal sounds, and ask simple “wh” questions as you go and answer the questions yourself in a conversational way. Start with “where” and “what” questions. For example, “Cow. Moo! Where’s cow? Here’s cow! (point) Moo! Moo!… What’s that? A doggie!… Woof woof!” Keep it fun and don’t worry about reading every word on the page or even finishing the book. Some children may only want to look at one page, and that’s okay! You are still teaching them how books work, having a great social interaction, and providing many repetitions of words.
When your child wants a toy or snack, hold 2 choices up out of their reach and label each choice a couple times before giving them the one they reach for. “Cow or pig?…Want cow or pig?…(they reach out for cow)…You want cow! Here’s cow!” They may not say the word, but the repetition teaches the word and encourages them to communicate with gestures in order to request.
Talk about your daily activities. Describe what you and your child do and see. For example: “Bath time! Turn on water….Water’s warm….Get in the bath. Splash! Splash!….Want a toy? (Hold up two toys.) Alligator or duck? Duck!…Here’s duck!…Duh-duh-duck! Quack quack,” etc.
There are many more simple strategies that your SLP can teach you. It can take some time to learn how to incorporate these activities into your daily routine, but every small step counts!